by Elsbeth Vaino
Dr. Yoni Freedhoff suggests that you should in his article, Worst Diet Advice: ‘Only Eat When Hungry’. His advice is to eat at regular intervals throughout the day so that you can avoid situations where you are truly hungry which can lead to poor eating decisions, like unhealthy afternoon snacks.
Contrary to this, I believe that some people miss their weight loss or maintenance goals because they eat when they are not hungry. For some people, the afternoon or late night indulgence is not the result of residual hunger, it’s just something they do. It is a habit that will occur regardless of hunger levels.
Am I contradicting Dr. Freedhoff?
Yes and no. Really what I am suggesting is that we need to ask the question: Are you having that afternoon chocolate because you’re hungry? Or are you having it because it’s 3pm and that’s what you do at 3pm?
If the answer really is that you are hungry, then it is a hunger induced poor decision, and I completely agree with Dr. Freedhoff that eating more earlier in the day is a great solution. But if the answer is that it is not hunger, but habit that spawns the snack, then eating more earlier in the day may just mean that you will eat more.
What should you do? There are lots of options. Since reading the fascinating book, The Power of Habit, I have been looking at habits as a cycle of a cue, an action, and a reward. To change a habit, you have to change one of those three parts of the habit cycle.
Dr. Freedhoff’s suggested approach also fits into this concept. If hunger is the reason someone is snacking, then eating more earlier will remove the hunger cue, thus averting the action (eating the snack).
If the cue is “it’s 3pm” instead of “I’m hungry“, then changing the cue isn’t a viable option. At least not for us mortals who have yet to discover time travel. Until then, we need to look at changing the action or the reward. An example of changing the action would be to have healthy snacks available so that you reach for veggies and hummus instead of going to buy chocolate.
Personally I have experimented with a few different rewards. Initially I replaced the delicious food reward signal with a smiley face reward. No, really. Every time I had an urge to snack when I wasn’t hungry, I added a smiley face to the note app on my phone. It turns out I like pats on the back, even when they come from me. Amazingly I like them more than I like the post-meal (minutes after the meal) and late night snacks that I have enjoyed almost daily for years. I have also experimented with taking a bit of time to play a tablet video game that I enjoy, and with doing pushups. All of these did work, and I suspect they can all work for you. The truth is, that eating is not the only solution to boredom. Stating the obvious, right? Ya, I know. But sometimes we need to see obvious statements to get ourselves out of habits that we’ve nurtured for a long time.
These are only a couple of examples, but they illustrate a point, that sometimes addressing food challenges is not really about the food. How can you tell? When you catch yourself eating something you know you’ll later wish you hadn’t, ask yourself the question: “Am I eating this because I’m hungry?“
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